She passed on 19 April 2014 , age 91
RIP ah ma
I won't forget how you doted on me (well, it is kind of favoritism). Still it was a privilege.
The old generation treats the first grandson from first son as their youngest son, so that's probably why.
Somehow, the memory of staying over at her 1 bedder in ChaiChee never goes away. I guess it was a pleasant feeling, so it stays.
Still, its been over 20 years since the drift happened. So maybe the pain wasn't so much because of it.
Still, your passing brings new perspective for myself. As children, we must be filial to our parents. I heard how she was alone at her last breath. Well, she was already probably sick for a long time, so perhaps I should not judge like what Brenda said, as taking care of her would probably be a huge strain to her children. But still, being alone at your last when your loved ones are actually around somewhere...it is kind of heartbreaking.
Well, at least all your children, grandchildren are here for the final rites and send off. It is a huge family, something you can be proud of. Your legacy. No one can take this from you.
So, rest in peace Ah Ma. We will all live well forward. Don't worry about anything anymore.
Love you
RIP ah ma
I won't forget how you doted on me (well, it is kind of favoritism). Still it was a privilege.
The old generation treats the first grandson from first son as their youngest son, so that's probably why.
Somehow, the memory of staying over at her 1 bedder in ChaiChee never goes away. I guess it was a pleasant feeling, so it stays.
Still, its been over 20 years since the drift happened. So maybe the pain wasn't so much because of it.
Still, your passing brings new perspective for myself. As children, we must be filial to our parents. I heard how she was alone at her last breath. Well, she was already probably sick for a long time, so perhaps I should not judge like what Brenda said, as taking care of her would probably be a huge strain to her children. But still, being alone at your last when your loved ones are actually around somewhere...it is kind of heartbreaking.
Well, at least all your children, grandchildren are here for the final rites and send off. It is a huge family, something you can be proud of. Your legacy. No one can take this from you.
So, rest in peace Ah Ma. We will all live well forward. Don't worry about anything anymore.
Love you
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